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Deciding to leave a relationship is a difficult process, it can be overwhelming, create mixed feelings and leave you worried whilst handling these all on your own. This page is designed to give you clear information that you can explore at your own pace, without pressure or judgement. If you're unsure about your options, use our flowchart to help think through what's important to you and for your children. The flowchart will guide you through each question about your circumstances and connect you to information, services and next steps to match your needs.

You are in control of the process, you can stop at any time and come back whenever you're ready.

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Legal rights when leaving a relationship

When you leave your relationship, it's important to know that you have basic legal rights that protect you and your children. The path you take will depend on your circumstances, before you use our flowchart, here are some common questions and answers about your legal rights.

If I’m married

Q: Do I have a right to stay in the family home even if it’s in my spouse’s name?
A: Yes. Under the Family Law Act 1996 (Part IV, ss.30–33) you may have 'home rights' allowing you to remain in the property until divorce or further court order.

Service: Rights of Women.

If I own my own home

Q: What happens to my property if I separate from my partner?
A: If married, property division is under the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973. If unmarried, property rights are determined by Trusts of Land and Appointment of Trustees Act 1996 (TOLATA).

Service: LawWorks for property disputes.

If I rent privately

Q: Can I stay if my name is not on the tenancy?
A: You may have rights under the Family Law Act 1996 to transfer tenancy or under the Housing Act 1988.

Service: Shelter UK.

If I live in council housing

Q: Will I lose my tenancy if I leave because of abuse?
A: No. Under the Housing Act 1996, victims of domestic abuse are classed as in priority need for rehousing.

Service: Local Council Housing Team

My rights as a mother regarding my children

Q: Can I stop contact between my child and their other parent?
A: Under the Children Act 1989 (Welfare of the Child is paramount, s.1) contact can be withheld only if there are safeguarding concerns, court orders may be required.